stereotypical love.

In all reality love is suppose to be the best thing that has or will have ever happened. All the story books and poems and songs all boast on how uplifting love is, how inspiring, how loyal, how understanding. Yet, they all seem to leave out how hard, how confusing, how torturous and degrating and hard and down right mean it can be. For boys and girls both. Isn’t it suppose to be the easiest thing in the world? I mean it’s easy to fall in love  or even fall for someone but it makes it that much easier for that person to hurt you, to create that void in your heart that brakes you so much that you’re at the point of insanity. The world seems like it’s nothing with out love but that’s because we have all formed this ridiculous dependency on it. Me myself has done the exact same thing and where has it gotten me? They say love can conquor all… well what are we so deseratly trying to conquour? Is it the emptiness we feel, the pain we went through, the hurt we have avoid for so long instead of just dealing with it. How special can love really be if all it does is make you care too much, make you care for something or someone that you’ll just lose in the end anyways… Why bother putting yourself through that much hurt again and again until you find the right one and then go through it again even harder because that person became a part of you. It just makes your self look even dumber. So how many times will you say “I love you.” How many tears are you going to let escape your eyes how many times are you going to say “I was so stupid for letting him/her do that.” Apperently it’s a lot because that’s what our instincts are, is to keep searching until we are satisfied. This isn’t the first nor the last time you will feel hurt or pain… and that’s what you call stereotypical love.